I just had the best five days, and perhaps the most needed break of the year so far. Earlier this week there were so many things happening and going on I just needed to take a break from being TL for a bit, and I apparently chose the right week, because there were some team issues and of course my team still had to deal with the housing situation. But thankfully the only part I played was in the distance, as my ATL Jess informed me of everything that was going on. I didn’t have to make any decisions at all, and that was wonderful. I’m sure she had to deal with more than she expected, but perhaps that’s just a taste for her/my team why I so badly needed this 5 day break.
I can’t even begin to describe how wonderful these past five days were. I haven’t been that genuinely happy in a while, so that in itself was a great feeling. I wish I could capture every moment here, but I guess I’ll have to do my best to remember it all:
Thursday
“Watch out the mailman is coming…Oh my God there’s a mailman on this street!” It’s something so simple and regular for so many people, but on Union Street it was something significant. It meant there were now people living in the homes we’ve been building. When I left the first four houses built were ready to be occupied, and now they finally were. And they were receiving their mail every day, just like millions of other Americans. Such a small thing, yet so significant at the same time. It made me so happy to see this kind of progress, especially after the two days that I had just had. Earlier that morning I had said goodbye to Steven before Gary, another TL in New Orleans, drove me to the Bay so I could start my leave. Throughout the day I didn’t do much more than scrape paint off of paint trays, but it didn’t matter. I was on leave and off-duty, just able to be a regular volunteer and get to catch up with Katie, Michelle and the other staff, as well as Delta 4, the team currently serving with Habitat. I could not have asked for anything better.
After work we went to Los Tres Amigos for some $1 margaritas before heading on over to the Mockingbird for some mockingburgers, music and off-site time with some of the other staff members. Or so was the plan. We got our burgers, yes, but ended up leaving relatively early because we were so exhausted. Oh yea, and we met a Marine who just got back from his 4th tour in Iraq and is home for two weeks. I have nothing but respect for our soldiers, but after the four of us were talking a bit about being in AmeriCorps and working for Habitat, it somehow turned into him asking me out. Multiple times. My “nos” didn’t seem to work, and there were moments when I just wanted to laugh out loud because of the absurdity of the situation. “No guy likes to be turned down,” he said, to which Michelle replied, “Apparently you do.” He must have returned to our table four times, and despite only being in town for one night and making his way to PA for the next two weeks, he said he’d fly back to New Orleans for a date. Seriously? Does that work on girls normally? Perhaps he truly is a nice guy (although he was nice enough while talking to me), and I felt awful for continuing to turn down someone who’s probably been through hell repeatedly in Iraq, but it was still a no, and once he left he mentioned he’d never been turned down so badly before. One of the HFH staff members Ryan was there and asked if he even knew remembered name, to which he replied, “I don’t know, Alexis or something…” Decision well made.
Friday
“Alix, how about we give you your own team of volunteers to be in charge of today,” asked one of the staff members. I, and everyone else, had to laugh before responding, “No thanks, I’m off-duty.” Day two off-duty was wonderful. We had 70ish high school boy volunteers from the local private school (one kid wore loafers, to the construction site. really?). They were a nice group and Katie and I had them de-nailing some wood before lunch, and then doing miscellaneous cleaning tasks after. They were only there until 1:30ish, so for the rest of the afternoon we did clean-up and prep for the following week when they were going to have more volunteers. And the best part is I got to drive one of the trucks up and down the street, carrying wood and trash to various places. It. Was. Awesome. Makes me really want a truck even more than I did before. Granted I had a little difficulty seeing over the wheel, but still, it was so much fun and I’d love to be able to do it again sometime =). The afternoon ending up being a busy one, with some of the staff members seemingly a bit frantic, but before calling it quits, we indulged in some raspberry king cake. What a great two days on site it had been, and it was only about to get better as the weekend began…
At night we went to a surprise part for a friend of a few friends. Ryan and Chris’ childhood friend was turning 30 and they said we could come, so Michelle, Stephen and I (Katie was sick) headed on over and had such a great time. The house of the couple hosting the party was absolutely beautiful and everyone was really friendly. What was so great to see is that many of these people have been friends since they were kids, and many of them grew up in the Bay. There was something so perfect about all of it, something so right. We ate some great good, listened to the live band (playing country, so awesome; the guy playing guitar grew up next to one of the staff members), watched a seven year-old bust some serious dance moves, and just enjoyed the evening. We turned in around 11:15 (after stopping at Benignos for another drink, of course), and I don’t even remember hitting the pillow I was so tired, and slept so solidly (well, Katie and Michelle do have the best couch ever).
Saturday
I planned on heading to the beach in the morning, but we ended up getting scones at the Mockingbird before deciding on watching a movie until we needed to leave for New Orleans. I could barely contain my excitement as we packed and got ready to head to Nola for the Krewe du Vieux parade, apparently a local favorite. It’s the first big parade of the Mardi Gras season. We got into New Orleans and headed to Michelle’s friends’ apartment, where we hung out for a few hours before taking the street car down to Royal Street.
We hung around for a bit, Katie and I getting a croissant, before we met up with some of the other Habitat staff. It was great to see them again (ok, it had only been a day…), especially at the parade. They mentioned this parade a few months ago, and I had been looking forward to going with them for so long I was so happy it was finally here! It passed us around 7:30 or so, and some of the floats were pretty awesome. There was a lot of awesome music and so much excitement, it was really cool to see and be a part of. There were many politically-inclined floats, which was interesting, and many interesting costumes. And of course, there were lots of beads being thrown. Katie managed to acquire a tangled ball of beads, which was how I got my first three necklaces (purple, gold and green, Mardi Gras colors). My fourth one was given to me but someone in the parade (teal, matching my shirt), and the fifth one I may or may not have picked up off the ground…apparently it’s bad luck but it was pink and the beads were bigger. Life is pretty good right now, how much bad luck can come my way? Overall it was a lot of fun and I’m glad I got to see my first Mardi Gras parade; hopefully I’ll be able to see others this season!! After we all headed to the Famous Door where we danced to live 80s and 90s cover music, and then Michelle, Katie and I made our way to the Bourbon Cowboy before heading back around 11pm. Our feet hurt, we were tired, and yes, apparently really old. But it was a really fun day and since we started in the early evening, we didn’t mind turning in early.
Images below: Michelle, Katie, Me and Sarah; taking a stab at BP; me with HFH crew
Sunday
This was perhaps one of the most fun days I’ve ever had. The original plan was so simple: get up, go to Jazz brunch at Buffa’s and then Michelle and Katie would go home somewhat soon after that. Oh no. Life had bigger and better plans for us that day. We headed to Buffa’s and weren’t sure if any of the other staff were going to meet us there. When we realized they weren’t, we decided to go with the flow and change our plans a bit. What resulted was a completely random, yet fun day, and I couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day: beautiful weather, great friends, and fun/random experiences in New Orleans. First, we headed over to the French Market and did some (“window”) shopping; I got a snow ball (finally!), and then we had beignets at Cafe du Monde. Getting off to a great start and it wasn’t even noon yet. Next, we headed back over to Buffa’s and there we saw Gary, another TL. When I went up to him to ask him how the whole getting a table at the very busy Jazz brunch thing worked, he introduced me to a guy he met, also from Utah. Gary mentioned I was also with AmeriCorps, and then I told him Katie and Michelle were too, and he and his wife were so excited to hear we were serving in New Orleans that before they left they gave the bartender $40 and told her to give us whatever we wanted. Awesome. Then another woman came over to us, shook our hands and thanked us for serving. She also bought us a drink. It was interesting to have so many people come up to us and thank us for our service. That hasn’t really happened to me yet. So with these free drinks we all started out with a double mimosa and enjoyed the jazz while we were waiting to get a table. When we finally got a seat, we ordered our food and then of course had more mimosas. And it wasn’t even 2pm yet. The day was starting off great. Once breakfast ended and we left (after being thanked by a few more locals), we decided to walk and seize the beautiful, beautiful day in front of us. From there we ended up at Pat O’Briens where we sat at the piano bar. Katie and I shared a Hurricane (made famous at Pat O’s), and we all sang along (loudly, of course) to the music (my favorite, Sweet Caroline). It was soooo much fun, and even though we decided to move on from Pat O’s, we didn’t want the day to end yet, so we continued to walk and wound up going into one bar and straight up to the balcony. Katie and I had been wanting to just hang out on a balcony for a while, so when we mentioned that Gary said he had been to the bar ahead and then we walked up and went to the balcony. Who knew it was that simple? We hung out there for a bit, enjoying the view and the cloud nine that we were all on before continuing to walk. We stumbled upon Yo Mama’s and had heard they had good burgers, so naturally we got some. Katie and I split one, and I couldn’t even finish my half, but they were really good. By the time we were done at Yo Mama’s it was 5ish in the evening, so we decided to finally put an end to our day. After saying goodbye to Gary, Michelle and Katie took me to the hostel I booked my night at (oddly enough, it is the hostel I stayed at two years ago when I was down with my ASB group). I wasn’t ready to go back to my housing and be TL, so I wanted one more night to be away. I didn’t do much but talk on the phone and then head to bed early, but it was still nice to be away (and for $18 too!).
Looking back, this entry doesn’t do justice to how much fun Sunday was, but it is a day I hope I remember forever. I wish I could have captured the adventure that day turned out to be. There’s something to be said for not having plans, being flexible, and how the day can turn from good to great all because of a few good drinks and even better friends =).
Images below: me & Katie with a hurricane!; the glass ash tray that walked off the table and broke itself- we have no idea how this fell off the table. i was texting and then heard a crash, and didn’t see anything. the waitress didn’t believe me when i said i didn’t know how it fell off the table. i think the guy next to us did it; the bill from yo mama’s-on each bill they have a yo mama joke. yes.
Monday
Alas, another beautiful Monday (I will never get sick of these!). Another friend came to visit and he picked me up at Starbucks (where I wandered because I was going stir-crazy waiting in the hostel) before we headed to start the Historic Jazz walking tour, which is part of the U.S. National Parks system. Unfortunately, the first three stops were the Louis Armstrong Park and it was locked off (although some guy told us later that on the other side there was a gate open; we clearly did not try hard enough). But we did get to walk around and listen (via cell phone) to some historical background on the places we did get to see, i.e. the Basic Street Station (the only historical train station still standing), and the U.S. Mint. We then hung around the park just talking for a few hours, catching up and enjoying the sunny day (in the 70s..yes, it is February). It was a great way to end my break, enjoying New Orleans with a friend and still being off-duty. We ended the day by eating at Juan’s Flying Burrito, which was REALLY good.
I returned to my team after we finished dinner and said our goodbyes. I caught up with a few of my CMs, some of whom seemed excited I was back, others possibly indifferent. I have my key back, and my govy phone. It’s official; I’m back on-duty. It’s going to be a busy week, with housing moves, van retrieval, and a site visit from my unit leader, but I feel ready. That’s what five days of fun in paradise will do for ya.